Alright guys, as I have been sick we will keep this
simple sexy…I mean one needs to get sexed up after feeling like a rotten potato all day right? So when I think about sex sexy I think about Two Naked Men Blondes right now because we are discussing so many topics related to naked men sex and relationships…in fact we are digging deep every day to come up with new topics people would like to get turned on by find out about and discuss with us. If you then topple that off with me looking for headlines for this blog…well, it’s like my brain has been bondaged taped into constantly thinking about sex and love. Or maybe I should say handcuffed? Can you handcuff a brain? Well I saw some plumbing outside a house the other day in the rubbish heap but before I had a closer look I thought it was a dildo. I mean, talk about having gotten one’s brain cells all firing off in one department and one department only! I swear I was handcuffed into it somehow.
So yes, at Two Naked Blondes we have started filming our weekly discussion topics (and soon we will have naked blokes, sexperts and everyone else being filmed to give their opinion also…and what’s more it will be professional videos made by a crew…not just Em’s iPhone…ahem.) And to keep this post bloody simple and sexy, I decided to post our two first videos. I did have a bad hair day, but I am sure you will excuse me – I was just being me without a professional stylist and how many people keep one of those anyway?!
Both myself and Em felt this didn’t exactly cover all the yummy bits we love in relationships…so below is my first comment about it, but to join the discussion, or hear what others think, please go to our Two Naked Blondes & Co. Facebook Page
I talk about support in the video…and minus doing the dishes…ahem…well, to me love is the wish that another person will reach whatever it is that is in their heart; their true potential if you so like, and live every moment as the happiest they can be. Therefore to have someone who loves you is an incredible support and being able to love someone like that and take part of their journey a true blessing.
As for sharing life, as I am also on about in the video…I believe attraction to a person springs from resonance and if the attraction is there because your hearts and minds resonate (ie not just the negative thinking patterns, beliefs, etc. you have in common and not just physical attraction either) then I believe a relationship with such a person can be lovely as you feel understood. I don’t know about you, but I love talking to and sharing moments with people who I feel understand me. It’s just simply magical. To quote my favorite movie: So often in my life I’ve been with people and shared beautiful moments like travelling, or staying up all night and watching the sunrise, and I knew those were special moments. But something was always wrong. I wished I’d been with someone else. I knew that what I was feeling, exactly what was so important to me, they didn’t understand. (from Before Sunrise)
Sharing life with someone is also great if you are with someone whose energy complements yours – it fires you up somehow. They understand you to the core, but they are still different from you. There’s a magical explosion there somewhere…and not just in bed…
…when I was on about creating life with someone…seeking out life…exploring…well, I see most things in life as a project, including life itself, because if you don’t take charge life will just happen to you. And when you create life together with someone with zest, passion, humor, magic, adventure and excitement…then it’s simply delightful! Whether I am trying to create a home, a crazy vacation, a film, a theatre production or a company with someone…for me it’s bliss. It’s being able to do what I love together with someone I love, someone who complements me (and compliments me ) and makes me laugh!!! Doesn’t get much better than that.
Of course a relationship is also lovely because someone sweeps you off your feet by cooking for you, taking you on a sexcation, or simply just spending a night in heavenly bliss with you ever so often, or they pour a bath for you or rub your shoulders when you are tired, serve you breakfast in bed or know you well enough to plan the perfect bday party…I mean who doesn’t want a naughty text message in the middle of the day or a simple note saying “I love you”?