I fucked up…so screw me, or what???…

Lotta vs ice-cream

Lick that ice cream in style, eh?!!

I’m sorry to tell you, but you have fucked up. Srsly. You have. I’m certain of it. ‘Cuz I don’t know anyone who hasn’t. Branson almost ended up in jail…and Virgin is the most trusted brand in the UK today. Why? I think because he accepted that what he did was wrong, put it behind him and cracked on. It’s the people who keep blaming themselves for yesterday that get stuck. Or the ones that try to justify their failure. Sure, figure out WHY it happened. Don’t do it again. But don’t stand there telling me it was OK to do it. It wasn’t. It’s OK that you did it though. It’s OK. Take the blame. Leave it in the past. And go onto never doing it again. Don’t hold onto it and punish yourself every time you think about it. Don Miguel Ruiz says that humans have a weird idea of punishment – we don’t just punish ourselves once, we do it every time we think about something we didn’t enjoy. The experience itself wasn’t enough, we constantly revisit it in our minds and hearts. That my dears, is no goody goody. I for one am thankful Branson got his act together and his ass out of jail and went onto creating my favorite airline.

Forget about the time you dived into the ocean to impress a six pack and landed on your ass screaming in pain…no it wasn’t because of a banana peel under your foot…get a lesson in how to do it right and get on with it (make sure the instructor is good looking – after all he will be looking at your ass from several different angles as you practice). Learn it. Get good at it. Or drop the idea of diving and simply trot along the beach walk looking fab licking…an ice cream. Move forward in style. Kick some ass peeps. Let’s rock February together!!!!! :0)

Can’t get enough of this song!!!!!!! So true…



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6 responses to “I fucked up…so screw me, or what???…

  1. I like the idea of putting past mistakes in the past. I re-live my mistakes on a daily basis. The mistakes just keep stacking up. I am determined to not make these mistakes again, but feel I will. I don’t think walking on the beach eating ice cream would help much. I am sure I would offend the on-lookers


  2. LOL, well if it offends them all the better eh? You gotta enjoy your life!

    Of course we all commit the same mistakes until we get our learnings, or a better understanding of how to act/think so as to avoid it. And we all screw up on a daily basis in one way or another. I think it’s important to let go though. Because as long as we hold onto something, we are bound to repeat it. Forgive and forget and all that 🙂


  3. Okay so here is a question. If I was able to forgive myself then I would stop making the same mistakes, but what if my wife won’t forgive me does this then mean I will repeat??


  4. I don’t know any magical formulas. I believe that if we forgive ourselves and learn what we need to learn to act/think differently we are able to move on freely. I don’t know how you let your wife (if you have one) influence your life and your decisions. I presume if you want someone’s forgiveness you would ask for it and what you need to do to obtain it. If it still isn’t given I would assume that you question how much good the relationship is doing you, but hey, I don’t even know what we are talking about here or if the situation is real or fictional!

    Thanks for your comments and I hope I provided some sort of answer of my perspective on the question!!! 🙂


  5. Fantastic post and very appropriate for me to read this today x


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