Today, as I was getting out of the tube, one person laid eyes on someone they knew and started waving. I could only see this person’s back, but the smile on the receiving end (the guy he was waving at) was so big it made me smile. And that’s life. It’s so beautiful when two people really appreciate one another – when they bring smiles to each other’s faces. When they share this world, so if only for a while.
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Yeah, I’m quoting Roxette. It’s alright. I have an excuse: I’m Swedish. When walking around town the other day my best friend looked at me and did a little jump: “I love you,” she said and laughed. I told her I loved her too. It’s emotional discomfort month and I had forgotten to tell her I loved her thus far that day. She has taken such a joy in this habit she now reminds me if I forget to say it.
People change with love. Their features soften. Their smiles shine brighter. Their hearts grow warmer. They look cozy, comfortable and inviting.
When you see beauty…..a smile, a look, a touch of that thing……….when you see something you love, do you share that? Do you tell the person what beauty you just caught a glimpse of? Do you invite them to open the door to their inner gorgeousness just a tad more? Do you open that door yourself? Do you allow yourself to feel happy about who you are? Do you invite others to see the beauty that is you?
I don’t know darlings, but this emotional discomfort month is changing my life…and that of those around me. I feel…I feel more alive. More on fire. More like a light rather than a shadow. More intense. More awake. More pulsating and warm. More free. I’m not just sharing my opinions, I’m sharing my emotions, my love and my heartfelt desires with the world. The jail I always felt captured me is now crumbling to dust. I am free.
By complimenting someone you are setting them free from their worst demons: their own disbelief in themselves. Their own negative thoughts are being conquered. They think you are their mirror. If you display joy, they will believe they are joy. If you display love, they will believe they are love. If you smile, they will think they are the reason for your smile.
Maybe your love alone will not transform the entire world…yet it will because everything you touch, that is capable of feeling your touch, will turn to gold. And that gold in turn will turn other things into gold. Your warmth will spread. Your light will brighten the night sky and you will be surrounded by your own light.
And when you smile, the whole world stops and stares for a while…’cuz you are amazing just the way you are…
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I’m on sale people, just so you know. For a limited period of time you can have me in your life. I’m a great deal too – I believe I’m just as hot as last year, but with additional perks included. The offer may expire at any time, so it’s getting hotter by the hour…
Yup, it’s the season – the sale season!!! You can now buy last year’s fashion for a fifth of what it cost…last year. So as last year is only three days away, the items are still hot and everyone’s running like mad hunters into the shops to get hold of their prey. That thing that will make them look and feel amazing, which is nice. People who look after themselves do feel better. A friend of mine on FB though pointed out that really all our friends and everything else we value in life is just a loan. We can’t keep people and and not even our own physical form forever. Her point was that you have to grow spiritually, because that’s what stays with you, long after everything else is gone. My point would be that in this season of sales, maybe also invest some quality time in the people in your life. They are on a limited offer too and you really don’t know when it will expire. And if you’ve had enough of it all, walk down the street to help out with some kids that aren’t getting the love they need, or hitch hike to India and volunteer for an organization. There is value in life and in YOUR life, even if sometimes it feels cheap. Even every smile you give lights up this world. And there’s a time for everything – even just sitting on your ass!!!
Richard Bach said that the best way to pay for a moment is to enjoy it, well the best way to pay for people, is to enjoy them…I told you I was on sale ;o)